Reflecting back
on my experience in Mexico, there are three really important lesson I learned from my experience. They are: 1) How to deal with the
unexpected, 2) How t and when to take the initiative and 3) The
importance of befriending everyone. I want to talk about each of
these and give a few examples how I came to learn these valuable
lessons.
From the very
start of my project I realized that now matter how well I planned
ahead I was constantly being bombarded with the unexpected. I could
start from the many challenges I faced in simply preparing my
proposal for my study; because they were many, but I want to start
with the my first weeks in Mexico. I will admit I arrived a bit naive
thinking that everyone around me would automatically understand my
good intentions and allow be to conduct my project in the manner I
wanted. It seemed logical that I could march into a school and
explain that I was there to do a study for the benefit of the
immigrants in the United States and that they would readily comply- drop
whatever they were doing, and help me get started on my project. It's
easy to tell that that was inexperienced thinking.
When I arrived
at my first school I was asked for documentation of permission from
qualified professionals, clear explanations of my intentions and
methods and how was it that the school would benefit from
participating in my study. The professionalism and seriousness they
asked for surprised me, and to be honest, it seemed a daunting task
to rise to the level they were expecting. To make a long story short, with
the help of my host mother and my mentor I was able to put together a
packet of three documents: Letter of presentation, Letter of consent
from my mentor (In English) and it's translation, all written in formal Spanish diction to present to the school. With that packet and some divine
help, three schools accepted to allow me participate in their high
school to conduct my research.
After getting
into the schools I assumed everything would be smooth sailing from
there. I was in the school I just needed to arrange a schedule with
various teacher so that I could observe their classroom and interview
them and their students. I asked the director if he knew any
teachers that would be willing to do this. The director is a great
worker and I don't judge him, but my request didn't go much father
than though his ears. I decided that besides waiting for him to find
time to ask which teachers would volunteer, I would go to the
teacher lounge and get to know a few of the teachers. Before long I
had five or more teachers willing to help me with my research. From
then on I constantly informed the school staff of my intentions and
actions, but I stopped hassling them with extra chores that I could
do with my own initiative. That became an important pattern for the
rest of my experience.
The last lesson
I learned stood out to me in a despret time of need. Towards the end
of my project I was having an extremely difficult time finding
parents willing to participate in interviews. My original plan didn't
work and I was left with virtually no parent contacts. Luckily I had
made many student friends during my time participating in the
schools. These students and a few of the teachers became necessary
gatekeeper for the last part of my project. Through them I was able
to acquire the necessary contacts for parent interviews that I
needed. I learned that by befriending everyone, those I least
expected became some of my most important gatekeepers.
By the end of my
experience I truly reflect on my experience with aw. I started a
project with very little understanding of what I was truly attempting
to undertake, but though the help of those around me and God, it
seemed that everything worked out better than I could have imagined.
I lived my experience in Mexico and I know it has strengthened my
character beyond what I could have hoped for.